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Saturday, August 27, 2011

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  1. Have a firm handshake.
  2. Look people in the eye.
  3. Sing in the shower.
  4. Own a great stereo system.
  5. If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.
  6. Keep secrets.
  7. Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen everyday.
  8. Always accept an outstretched hand.
  9. Be brave. Even if you're not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.
  10. Whistle.
  11. Avoid sarcastic remarks.
  12. Choose your life's mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 per cent of all your happiness or misery.
  13. Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out.
  14. Lend only those books you never care to see again.
  15. Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have.
  16. When playing games with ! children, let them win.
  17. Give people a second chance, but not a third.
  18. Be romantic.
  19. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
  20. Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters, nothing is as important as it first seems.
  21. Don't allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It's there for our convenience, not the caller's.
  22. Be a good loser.
  23. Be a good winner.
  24. Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret.
  25. When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go.
  26. Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born.
  27. Keep it simple.
  28. Beware of the person who has nothing to lose.
  29. Don't burn bridges. You'll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river.
  30. Live your life so that your epitaph could read, No Regrets
  31. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you'll regret the
  32. things you didn't do more than the one's you did.
  33. Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
  34. Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you.
  35. Take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it for you.
  36. Visit friends and relatives when they are in hospital; you need only stay a few minutes.
  37. Begin each day with some of your favorite music.
  38. Once in a while, take the scenic route.
  39. Send a lot of Valentine cards. Sign them, 'Someone who thinks you're terrific.'
  40. Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice.
  41. Keep a note pad and pencil on your bed-side table. Million-dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 a.m.
  42. Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job.
  43. Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later.
  44. Make someone's day by paying the toll for the person in the car behind you.
  45. Become someone's hero.
  46. Marry only for love.
  47. Count your blessings.
  48. Compliment the meal when you're a guest in someone's home.
  49. Wave at the children on a school bus.
  50. Remember that 80 per cent of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people.
  51. Don't expect life to be fair

Sunday, August 21, 2011

The End ♥

i was a very happy go lucky girl before i met you, i had it all going for me. you fucked up my family, my friends, and my education mainly on influence but it was because of you.
i made a mistake recently thats knocked me down south. knocked me off my pedestal. knocked my confidence straight back down. 
You knew what you were doing all along. you couldn't stand that i was moving on from you.
You've had control over me for two years now. i wasn't time on you. Don't get me wrong when we were happy we were happier than every couple out there. what we had was something special. We have the happy memories but that's all that we will be anymore. memories. 
You've taken the heart i gave to you from the beginning and chucked it off a cliff for it only to be dashed against rough rocks to become jagged and fragile.
You can change the way you are but it wont be with me and the girl you've chosen over me will never know. i hope she doesn't find out through as much pain as me. 
this really is goodbye. i'm saying it through this so i can't go back on it. so i can look back at this and remember what you did to me. i'll remember the happy times and nothing will ever overcome that feeling i had with you. i don't doubt i might find that feeling again with someone else but until then i'll remember you.
You were a best friend when i had none. someone i never pictured having to let go of. of course i was naive to think that.  it was a bit like a fantasy with you. although everyone told us we never loved each other that was the one thing i was certain of. trust was never there. and i blame us both. the last six months with you i would've never changed i was happy. and although i cried over you. i am a drama queen and i admit i needed to lighten up.  i hope that in the future we can be friends.


"having to be so far from the one i adore it is encouraging to come back to your arms, more and more each day" 


some great love letters cannot begin to describe everything i had and felt with you. but love is never simple. love isn't just happiness. its heartache. Pain. and can cause the worst scar of all. You were the one. but i have to move on now. 
I hope we can be friends one day. and i hope you find happiness. 




Jeg elsker deg Christof.
愛你斯托弗

Ma armastan sind Christopher
Je t'aime Christopher
 myliu jus Kristoforo


I love you. but the pain will go.